KIDNAPPED! (Continued)…Yorkville, Toronto
I come from a family of four: my mother, Margaret Isabel Young (née Peace), my father, Dr. Robert Goddard Young, my brother, William Robert Stuart Young, who was six years my junior, and myself, John Paul Young. My brother's untimely death in July 1996 occurred just as I was about to turn forty. For the next six years, I took on the role of primary caregiver for my parents.
The grim discovery of my younger brother's body in his apartment shocked me profoundly. The officer on duty, "Bart," suggested at the scene that by identifying my brother's body for the Coroner, I could shield our elderly parents from the anguish of seeing their son in such a condition.
In clinical shock, I waited for the Coroner, a compassionate woman who arrived with the others. She understood the emotional impact of identifying a deceased relative, particularly given the condition of his body after two days.
I wasn't allowed to see my brother's body until the Coroner deemed it appropriate. When the time came, she directed me to my brother's remains, making sure I recognized him. The responsibility of confirming his identity was a weight I would bear forever.
Over six years, as determined by our family physician, Dr. Jerry Zadyko, I looked after my aging parents. It took five years to find some semblance of normality. By 2001, life was as good as it could be, despite the lingering memories of my late brother.
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